Interesting topic…I think perhaps I used to have a lot of pet peeves, but I’m working on it to reduce them to the holy number of zero. Because I’m realizing that, if some silly small stuff bothers me, and I get so much heated about it, that rather than helping me is going to harm me big time.
We have limited energy…we should put that energy every day towards good goals to accomplish…we should everyday fill our mind with good thoughts, rather than “Oh, I’m so bothered by this…I’m so bothered by that”.
Of course, it’s also perhaps not possible to be not bother by anything at all…I mean if someone is going to straight murder me right now, I’m not gonna sit down and say “oh, I don’t want to have a pet peeve, so I’m not bothered by that” lol, 'cuz that doesn’t make any sense. But I’m always jealous of easy going people…they don’t take everything so seriously…like monks…it feels like they make their own lives much easier…there is a saying that “we are our own worst enemies, not others”.