I like and admire people who have a strong personality. People who reflect sheer confidence, grace and earth-shattering faith in every word they utter and every single move they make. People who know how capable, strong, brave and beautiful they are without asking for other people’s confirmation. People who are never desperate for no one’s love, attention or approval but themselves. I glow when I see such people. People who radiate triumph and glory.
And I hate to see there are people who are as much capable and awesome as others but lack self-love, self-respect and confidence. They annoy me.
Society treats you the way you treat yourself. These kind of people let others taunt them, humiliate them, beat them, use them. They stay where no one wants them, they hang out with people who don’t respect them. They don’t value themselves. People who have a weak personality annoy me. They make me angry even. When I see they don’t respect themselves as they should, when I see they don’t have a shred of dignity and pride in their bones, I just snap and treat them the same way they treat themselves. Yes I feel like an absolute jerk afterward but I can’t help it.
Every human being is special. Every one of us has sth to give to this world. Sth of value. We have to find that piece of light ourselves and let that part of us grow and glow. We can’t do such things by hiding in other people’s shadows.
As for my family, me being talkative like hell.
As for others, me being haughty.
I think having separate threads will be more user-friendly. They need the topic to have a simple name and simple first post to understand what is going on in it. Except a bunch of parasites here (if you know what I mean), a lot of users are too lazy to scroll up and read the previous comments and get what we’re talking about.
You want a piece of this?
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The first one was “self-love”. That one?
Why am I asking? Too late for that.
You have to defend yourselves. Don’t put the ball in my court. I’m not afraid of scoring.
If you want me to give you a sum-up of my opinion in advance, I’ll put it this way: Hossein annoys me, full stop. (I’m joking; I like him; like my own son )
I assume you know me by now, but let me tell you my not-so-much-of-a-secret weakness. I get annoyed very easily (multiply “easily” by 50). But, I’m not weak, I just expect too much of other people. Any way, If I list the people who are on my nerves, it would be a long one. So, let me just tell you the first one in my list: “arrogant people”. The ones who think they’re better than anyone and anything. They think they’re one of a kind, but they don’t know the graveyards are full of “one-on-a-kinds”. If they are beautiful, they will become ugly (if they live long enough). If they are rich, they will lose the use of their own money. And, If they don’t change, they will become lonely. They don’t care about anyone but themselves. Last night, I picked a Ukrainian girl up and moved her (literally; not a metaphor), and she gave me the stinky eye. I wanted to tell her “I care about you enough to help you, idiot; you think this is my job?”. I was helping my colleague; If I would sit behind my desk, that wouldn’t have happened. Even God doesn’t know why I degrade myself sometimes. (Yeah, she was beautiful and my co-workers made a lot of jokes about it afterwards, but I really felt belittled).
Do you know what’s the worst kind of arrogant people? “Arrogant+idiot” ones. I can put up with “arrogant+smart” ones, but not them. They’re hopelessly stupid (Stupidity is the second item in my annoyed-with list).
So, yeah. The world is the property of them, and we are trespassing.
Others won’t answer to it. Why should I wait? They can either don’t like it and don’t answer to it, or like it and spare mere 30 seconds of their time to answer to my question. It won’t kill them, will it?
Another category of people who annoy me, ignorant people.
It’s obvious I want an answer when I put a question mark at the end of my sentence.
Well, how should I react? There is a limit for everything. What is the use of a question if not demanding other people’s opinion? And that mere asking shows I respect you and when you do not answer to it, it means you even don’t bother to acknowledge it. Respect is not sth I show toward every one.
You’re not hated and no one dares hate me. Problem solved.
I’m sorry if I was harsh or maybe still am. I just snapped.
You’re entitled to get mad. In fact, when I see a good person, I always tell them (jokingly) “People mustn’t be good. Being good takes more energy and gets less respect and attention; On the other hand, being bad takes less time and energy and gets more attention. So it’s logical to be bad”.
I know how you feel (you know I do). Tag people! 90% of them will not answer. So tag them again. That shows how confident you are about your expectations of getting an answer. People should respond to each other. When they don’t, they sank to the level of a non-speaking animal. So why do we need their opinion?
(I must add, hitting Like button under a post counts as “responding” in my mind).
(and let me add another thing; a lot of users are afraid of getting embarrassed in front of you. You write splendidly good. In a way, that’s your own fault really, that they don’t answer you.)
Amir, I said private chat. Here is not private. When a boy knowingly sends a message to a girl and asks for partnership in learning, it’s because of something else. But when a girl sends a message, it doesn’t imply that. It’s good.
By the way, do you know what a “noose” is? Search the picture! Yeah, don’t tell me I didn’t warn you.
(Joking aside, I know you’re good, but 99.9999999999999% of boys are not. The 0.0000000000001% is you. )
I really enjoy talking to you. I hope I see you here more.
I hope physically, not mentally. (in fact, I hope none of them ). BTW, I was dying of exhaustion last night. It wasn’t a joke. Despite that, I came here and wrote a little comment. So, the people who say they are too busy to write a sentence are lying little &*&^%$%%$#@@$%^%^^%$#%%^^^^%%$#$$%%#$$#$@#%%$%$@#%$#%$^$%$#%$. (Yes, you heard it right )
در کنارش گفتم بهت اضافه کنم use them درمورد انسان ممکنه زیاد میک سنس نکنه و به نظر میرسه این دقیقا یه ترجمه تحت اللفظی از فارسی به انگلیسیه,
به جاش manipulate رو پیشنهاد میدم که تو حالت پسیو استفاده کنی,
خیلی خوشحال میشم اگر من هم نوشتم این ایرادامو اگه متوجه شدین بهم بگین.
These questions are kind of indirectly asking about subjective valuable features for one.
By embodying a subjective material(features) to an objective one(people)maybe it becomes easier to talking about, but I prefer to speak about which personality types are and are not attractive to me, regardless of who owns them.
This worldview ground in my deteminism approuch, in my opinion people born with a genetic that they did not select that, as well their family, and I try to never blame others for what they are, actually, nobody is annoying to me.
I could show empathy to people, and Im for the idea of Help to others if they want and I could, love them, and if you couldnt stand well just keep distance but never firget about their conditions are unknown to you.