Hi there, guys!
Welcome to the next speaking challenge.
Today we want to talk about arguing.
(BTW, you don’t need to answer all of the questions if you don’t want to!)
Questions:
Do you feel the urge to impose your beliefs on others? Why? /Why not?
How do you feel when someone disagrees with everything you say?
In your opinion, is being argumentative a positive trait or a flaw?
How much do you care about winning an argument?
Do you enjoy “playing the devil’s advocate” (debating for the fun of it)?
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Alright, have fun.
Good luck!
پرسشها:
۱. آیا در مباحثات خود احساس میکنید که نیاز دارید عقاید خودتان را به دیگران بقبولانید؟
۲. وقتی افراد با تمامی گفتههای شما مخالفت میکنند، چه احساسی پیدا میکنید؟
۳. از نظر شما اهل بحث بودن خصیصهای مثبت محسوب میشود یا منفی؟
۴. چقدر به «بردن» یک مباحثه اهمیت میدهید؟
۵. آیا از دسته افرادی هستید که از پذیرفتن نقش «وکیل مدافع شیطان» (که در آن لزوما عقاید خود را مطرح نمیکنید اما دائما برای سرگرمی به بحث کردن ادامه میدهید) لذت میبرند؟
۶. …
I want to answer the third question
In my opinion being argumentative can be a good and useful trait it can impress your mind and improve your opinions and ideas about some topics especially when you are arguing about
science
In addition a useful argument can open your mind to other aspects of a subject
Because of this things I think I beneficial arguing can be positive and argumentative people can be successful if they argue just for being more knowledgeable
PS: frankly, I’ve got the last question wrong, and I’m too lazy to record a new one. So, I’m gonna…write. I love to have conversations which will add sth to me. When I debate sth, I do really care about the result, so, my answer is, No.
What a splendid topic! Though, my opinion on this matter is rather… unstable. It alters with my mood, so, I don’t think any good will come of it.
از دانایی پرسیدند راز آرامشت چیست؟
گفت: با هر کسی بحث نکردم.
گفتند: فکر نمیکنیم این راز آرامش باشد.
گفت: حق با شماست…
Though, I’m not the “wise one”, evidently. But I do quite agree with him. No good will come of eating people’s head off until they get tired and eager to get rid of you and own to sth they don’t really believe. It will just tire you and gain you no real respect. So, really, there is no point to it.