Hello there, every one.
I hope you’re having a great night.
I have loads to say on this subject.
Well, I believe gender problems are the results of faulty mindsets and incorrect thoughts.
Since we were born, we’ve been bombarded with destructions of behaviours and manners which shape our charecters, according to our gender. We’ve been taught that men should never cry and women know nothing but crying. We’ve been told men are the master of logic ,and women? Well, they are emotinal and not capable of thinking and judging based on facts. We have heard men have to be strong and harsh, women are kind and gentle.
Sorry to burst the bubble but it’s totall bullshit.
We are merely human beings and the only thing that differs us from others are ourselves not our gender.
Who the hell has said men are not to show their feelings and girls are to be weak and always in need of a man to lean on?
Determining limits for ourselves just because we’re a girl or a boy is simply ridiculous.
I don’t want people to look at me as a girl. I want as much attention for my ideas and words as a boy. I want as much soppurt and backup for my talents as a boy. I want as much trust and faith as a boy. I want the same payment of money for the same work as a boy. I want to be trusted to lead. I want to be treated as a human. Not a girl, not a teenager, not an Iranian but as a human.
Equality means no matter who you are, no matter what you are, no matter where you come from, you will be treated the same way as others. You’ll get as much as others. You will be treated as a human.
There is no law saying a girl can’t lift weights and a boy can’t cook. And if people are holding back from doing things that they really want to do because others would think it’s not appropriate owing to their gender, then I invite them to take a step out of the borders which others had drawn for them. You’re gonna live that life and you are the one to say how you like it to be.
And I’m so sorry to see that girls are the ones who get hurt and feel limited by these fake ideas.
You know, I hate it when a man’s physical power gives him this idea of control over a girl. I just hate it.
When a boy stucks in an alley with a couple of girls, he doesn’t feel insecure and afraid, does he? No he doesn’t.
But a girl does. I have felt it countless times.
Boys may think it’s funny and hot to cat call and wolf whistle and smirk when a girl passes but I’m telling you it’s revolting. It’s simply revolting.
One of the things which I envy boys for, is that when they are angry, when they are offended, when their families are offended, they don’t bite off their lips, they don’t burst in to tears, they don’t crash, they don’t feel weak. They just land a punch on the face who dared to mouth the words that caused such things.
But a girl can’t.
I hate to be humiliated by a boy, I hate to be underestimated by a boy, I hate to be called with revolting adjectives that some people think are sexi or whatever. I hate it and I’m never going to learn to cope with it.
I want to be praised for my spirit and my courage and inteligence and talent.
I want to be described with vertues that I like, not things which people see them sutable for me.
Oh god, I talked your head off.
I’m just so overwhelmed that when I start it’s hardly possible to stop.
Thanks Mr. @matinrohany for the effort you put in.