Asking is a good thing. Questions work as conversation pieces (meaning reasons to talk). Do that every time you have a question.
Well…
When you want to make a deal (معامله) official, you seal (مهر کردن) the papers. To seal a deal means “to make it official”, and more effective and enforcing. I was joking about “making the insult official and better”. 
Of course, “shut up” is a term of endearment (friendly insult 
) here.
See ya! 
Thank you for your explanation. I totally understood.
That’s great. 
It’s difficult and it takes time.
Anyway you write really well.
thank you for your attention. Because writing takes a lot of time for me, I write less. 
Ms. Hosseini, () I really feel better when I’m joking with you guys.
It was a joke making fun of my own condition. There was a laughing emoji at the end of the sentence. When I use emojis, I don’t intend to be serious (I might be, but I don’t want to get a serious answer).
I knew what you meant. Damn, I just remembered your “blunt” word. You are so considerate and understanding. There’s something wrong with you.
[Let me borrow one of your PSs ]
PS: I can’t do anything right now, so I’m in a loop of checking the forum and watching this video (absent-mindedly).
You write pretty well if you ask me and you will get better as time passes. It’s a bit hard when you start but it’ll get easier.
You’re most welcome. 
Thank you for joining us.
Hi gues
Parents have parental authority that’s right but it doesn’t mean because themselfs bad or hard situation provide limitation and difficulty .but some parent’s are the opposit
I can’t undrestand this parental authorit’s boundry
What does it mean???
It became like atest question u don’t know the answer of second the thired and forth are about the second question
so if the second question is about limiting or limitation parental authority’s boundry are s.th that they like or their ideas said
The child like something and their parents are against and because of that they can’t achive s.th that they want such as field .parents like their child choose an experimental field inested of their interest .but some times its good that parents limit their child .no parents wants their child to become addicted so they limit him or her
It means how much do you think a parent can or should put pressure on the children to do the things they want them to do. (Did I just make it worse? )
He said it.
If I recall correctly, you told me it doesn’t work at all.
Shut your bloody mouth! I’m smart; yeah, I’ve been stupid for a few days, but even then, I was smarter than 90% of people.
But you didn’t know you’re not blunt.
It was a few songs by Zhavia. Just a thing I was watching to pass time.
I hate you for noticing that. 
Let me invite two people who I like the way they write by tagging them.
@Saeed-bavar1 @setare12 Hi there, would you like to share your opinions with us?
@setare12
Let’s imagine you’re a parent of a 15-year-old daughter (10 years from now). One day she decides to get a tattoo on her body (a big one). Would you make her change her decision? Would you talk her out of it? Or would you ignore it?
You know, when children get older, they will blame their parents for not preventing them from their mistakes, and they will blame them again for not letting them reach their goals and wishes, as well. Which one do you prefer? Being a guilty mother of clean conscience or a guilty mother of guilty one?
Thank you for inviting me
Actually that’s a long time I haven’t been here, Your invitation and how you know me really surprised me!
Any way, parental authority 
This is my most important challeng to work on these days.
I think my problem as a mom, is being too logical! I mean I’m a logical person and really I can’t have my child do something that’s not reasonable, or prevent her doing something that is reasonable but our society don’t accept it! 
You know how much paradoxes we have in our society you want to raise your kid based on new world’s realities, but the traditional thoughts is what judge your kid!
As a mom, what I’ve always wanted for my kid is when she grows up, she feels happy and satisfied, I want her to be what she wants not what I want her to be! And I will do my best to get her there.
Um, well… I would talk to her, I would explain her the pros and cons, what she would get and what she would lose.
Actually first, I would study and search about it, if this is scientifically right or wrong, then, if there weren’t any scientific or medical fact how could I talk her out of it?!
My pleasure!
I do remember you, and I don’t forget the people whose skills impressed me.
I completely understand. To be honest, as long as I’m in Iran, I don’t dare to think about forming a family. I mostly tell people I’m not financially ready, but the truth is I’m really scared of destroying other lives. Our politicians who have the most influence on children in schools, want them to grow up like obedient slaves; our people teach them how to become angry and disappointed and the parents want them to be happy. I don’t know how these three work together. And I can’t imagine how hard it must be for you to be a mother of a 5-year-old. Your work is really impressive.
Imagine the worst case scenario. She’s a teenager, and you’ve lost her respect. She doesn’t listen to you any more. As I know it, a child is mostly influenced by their peer group and their friends, then their schools and after all that their family. Imagine the other two ruined your job, and you have no authority over her. Would you raise your hand on her?
I didn’t think there are parents who really read how to raise a child. As someone who never felt the love of his parents, I think your daughter is very lucky. I wish her a happy life and wish you a fulfilling future. Have you read anything by now though?
I really appreciate your reply and participation. Thank you. I hope we read you more from now on.
Thank you Addison:beers:
If I had a child , I would let her or him live totally free . ( let’s imagine of a girl) .
All I have to do is that showing her the way of learning things . If I want her to be as good as it’s possible, then I’d not limit her ! rather , I should help her get use to reading books and novels , feed her emotions by music and art and let her live and experience and learn from living !
She must be free if she wants to play music as I like or be a model or live as a 
I just have to help her to find her interests and her best way of living .
If you’re talking about the occupation of your daughter, I assume it’s acceptable then. But since you used the phrase “to live totally free”, I must admit it’s a horrible thing to do. You’re forgetting about animal-natured humans. There are devilish people trying to hurt your daughter. You mean if she wants to get back home late at night, you would let her? Most of the time a parent sees incidents waiting to happen which an inexperienced teenager cannot see them. And sometimes they don’t even accept that you know better, and you’re worried about them; that’s when a conflict shows itself. You’re picturing an ideal life in fairy tales with well-behaved children.
Saeed, I’m happy to see your response. Thank you.
You’re right. But if they don’t listen, it’s partly because most parents, specially fathers, state it in a territorial manner. They don’t bluntly say why but just say we shouldn’t do whatever it is, which leads you to feel like they don’t trust you or that they want to control you and as a girl myself, I hate to feel controled or in need of protection.
Limiting someone without stating reasonable reasons, surely won’t lead to acceptance. I think parents need to be blunter with their children. Keeping them in dark only to tell them a half-truth later on won’t help.
