your welcome
I didn’t say I’m gonna let her alone and let devilish people hurt my sweet daughter 
but I’ll be her best friend and protector .
I said she’ll have a free life … in her decisions and every thing that is personal .
It’s my rule in life , no limitation, no prevention . Just learning and freedom.
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Their authoritative manner is because of the inexperienced nature of teenagers. It’s normal not to trust them completely. Plus, sometimes commanding a teen is easier than explaining complicated things to them. But of course, If a teenager shows their mature and understanding mind, the parents will trust them more. The final result comes from the art of communicating with each other (that none of us knows, I believe).
What I wanted to say in my previous comment is that sometimes little differences in definitions of freedom makes big conflicts. Sometimes protection means prevention; more freedom means more life-ruining mistakes. It’s not that easy.
Guess where I am!
See ya!
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I feel like we’re not in a same team, that’s not bad . It’s a challenge and everyone’s got a special idea about this matter.
I’m sure you would not allow your daughter be a friend of my daughter if it was a possibility 
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Absolutely not. I will beat her to death.
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Hi everyone
Talking about parents is always somehow difficult I think we all have our own problems while growing up and it’s y’know unavoidable. And it’s like a cycle we pass it through generations.Nowadays people read about how to treat more correctly with their children and i think awareness is the most important part of parent’s authority
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I love animals too (more than you, maybe 
), but I was talking about animalistic instincts in them. Sadegh Hedayat said:
رجالهها هر یک دهانی هستند با مشتی روده که از آن آویزان شده است و به آلت تناسلیشان ختم میشود و دائم دنبال پول و شهوت میدوند.
So, yeah…
[I laughed a lot at the pictures. Damn you! 
]
I don’t believe even one person, in Iran, has ever read a book about parenting. Someone, please, come and tell me a name of a book about how to raise a child in Farsi.
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Let me explain myself with an example. When I was in middle school, most of my English class’ classmates and I, attended double shift schools. So, our classes were always held from 6 PM till 8 PM, which in winters, were practically dark.
Though, most of the times I would go there on my own and my mother or brother would only pick me up at 8. To be honest, having my brother by my side would’ve always made me feel more secure but I mostly refused point blank to let him come with me because when I would ask him why I can’t go alone, he would say, “because I say so” or his favorite answer “because the sky is high” and he would say that in a territorial way which would set me just glowering at him for minutes. I would have rathered hear sth like " because there are some useless bastards out there which I don’t want to see you anywhere near them". My brother is not a territorial kind of boy and still I sometimes find it hard to deal with him and I can’t imagine how some other girls who have utterly hardheaded territorial men around them manage to deal with them.
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So, he sacrificed his respect for your peace of mind, and you’re angry at him? He didn’t want you to see the ugly side of people. You should respect that. I prefer to hear “shut up” instead of “there’s a lot of bastards out there”.
But they did spoil you, you brat. They should have beat you black and blue. (bad-timing joke; we were serious )
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:))) at least they pretend they are growing up their child with some special methods😁
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I already know the ugly side of people. If he gave me the answer I wanted, I wouldn’t say no to his company.
Maybe I am a tad spoiled. But I assure you that you wouldn’t call me a “brat”, if you’ve seen real spoiled girls. I am just a bit defiant and not the obediant kind. That’s all.
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You think best parenting methods are laid in the book about parenting 
But I can learn it from living , from wrong and right parenting that I’ve seen myself in my family and my friend’s families. Also I can learn parenting from novels and movies … but I hate read a book with these kinds of titles “ parenting “ 
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I know what their special method is. It’s giving a child a smartphone and making them sit in front of telly at the same time. So they don’t have a chance to look around them. And parents find time to surf on Instagram or something.
By the way, welcome to our discussion. I hope we see you more. 
You take that seriously? Actually, you’re the smartest girl I know (Sorry, other girls! 
).
But I know the kind you’re talking about, GOD!!! 
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You’re abandoning your daughter in the name of freedom, for Pete’s sake. 
COME ON!!!
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Of course I didn’t. I barely take you seriously.
Have a good night.
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Well, that hurt! 
I will kill you tomorrow. Have a good night.
Have a wonderful night, guys.
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Haha actually right i agree. I hope this “going to therapist and learning about parenting” become more efficient and not just a show off.
And thank u🌷
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I’m sure your daughter will have to say I’m going to library when she’s going on a date and you’ll be relieved by that lie
But my daughter will go on a date with a good boy without fear of her dad 
You take the way of limiting and parenting books , I go on my own wrong way
Good night Aunt Addi ( you really remind me of my Aunt )
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Hi🌺
1-subject:
Parental authority
The words of a teenager:
Adolescence is like the growth of a seed, and Adolescence is an important period in every person’s life The adolescent does not tolerate being checked, get stuck and Sermonize When you take an adolescent phone from him and start checking it, all kinds of feelings like a full-blown military war 
It attacks her being in that time like a pot of boil water was It is boiling with rage 
when you get stuck a teenager, just wants to not hear you and leave. When you speak in the tone of advice, wants you to stop talking and leave.
The teenager in your house is not accused, and you are not the interrogator. The teenager is not listening to your speech.
Teenager is a tower full of passion😊
Why do you destroy the teenage tower with your words?
Why nail a teenager to a wall?
Dear parents, take care teenagers
Trust your teen, Be with him comrade At least control him from a distance If you believe the teenager,he will be with you sincerely 
This is a text made from the language of a teenager, It should show his anger 
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Hi there! Nice seeing you here.
How can you ensure he is a good boy? What if he leaves her and she gets hurt?
You know, boys might move on but girls are different. Most of them really consider having a future or sth with them. That’s why girls are more vulnerable than boys when they start a relationship. They trust them easily and that’s not a good thing at all.
As far as I know, there is no good boy on this planet.
But I believe you’ll make a supportive father and you’ll accept her for whoever she is, you won’t try to change her. That’s a really really wonderful thing.
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Ms. Mohabbat, it was wonderful.
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