Parental authority

Thank you🌺

The next series I try to write in the language of parents and what they expect from a teenager :joy::rofl:

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That would be awesome. You’re covering all the aspects. I’m looking forward to it.

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Thank you my friend for inviting me to this challenge. Thank you. Yes, I will definitely write in my parent language.:hibiscus::rose::blossom::tulip:

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You’re mooooooooost welcome. :rose: :sweat_smile:

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Don’t be so naïve! First, I will install a tracking app on her phone, then I will plant a GPS tracking device in her purse, and to make completely sure, I will follow her everywhere she goes. Don’t underestimate my control-freaknessness :slightly_smiling_face: (imagine it’s a word :sweat_smile:).

Thank you, :slightly_smiling_face: and you remind me of my enemy from now on. :expressionless:

Of course, they mustn’t trust them. Teens are stupid and untrustworthy. Open your eyes, my friend.

Laugh on water!!!

Ahem! Ahem! :confused: [awkwardly coughing]

You must be freaking kidding me! :joy: Him!? Lord give me strength. :rofl:

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Hey mate :raised_hand::grimacing: thank you :cherry_blossom:
She’ll maybe choose a wrong guy , but the more she’ll learn about right and wrong, it’ll be less likely to choose a bad guy

By the way I’ll make sure that my daughter talk to me about the boy and I’ll give him some advice if she’ll want :grin:
But breaking up in relationships is something inevitable, almost everyone must experience that , except that and learn how to keep living afterward…

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Bitter truth. :joy:

I don’t know. Maybe it’s just me but I’m like why should someone bother to start a relationship when they know it’s not going to last?

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Yes ,it doesn’t make sense but it’s a fact that “ nothing lasts for ever, even cold November rain “ ( November rain by Guns N R :grin: )

It happens in 9 out of 10 relationships. Why ? Cause something happens , if not , they get bored someday :neutral_face: at least one of them surly get bored. It’s the way human’s emotions work

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Well, can you get bored of your daughter? It’s the same for a true relationship. If someone really cares about you, they never get tired of you. Commitment shows how deep that affection goes.

@matinrohany
See? Boys are really heartless. :rofl:

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It’ll be beautiful if the things be like what you say , but I’m afraid it’s not a thing that can be changed. You see it in your environment , you find it out from history ,may read it from old stories and novels , and more importantly you may experienced it or will .

There are some exceptions but I just wanna say every relationship ends someday, or at least if in rare cases it continues … it’ll be completely different from the way it was at the beginning ! I mean no that emotional and loving :grin:
So in my opinion everyone have to face it , and be happy with him or her relationship just till it lasts… :couple::joy:

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I’m actually with Saeed in this one. Finding your real partner for life is like a trial and error process. For a guy it’s mostly sexual appeal, but for a girl it’s love (ugh :nauseated_face:) and commitment. So, a guy wants to try more and a girl wants to find it faster (We, boys, make breakups inevitable :smile:).

:expressionless: I don’t care if it’s truth. I’m standing right in front of you. I’m a good boy, dammit. :neutral_face:

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Yes there are some, I think raising a happy child is a big challeng, at least for me; I’m not satisfied with the way my parents raised me so I don’t have a satisfying sample or lead to look up, that’s why I’m looking for a way that I can rely on, so I read different books and listen to different idea of different psycologist to get some thing, and ofcorse I have a critical view and I don’t accept all of them, because I believe most of them just write and just say !
By the way, I tried two books written by Dr Sajad, I ‘ve learned a lot and ofcorse in the meantime I found a lot to discuss :wink:

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Again, thank you for your participation. I hope we didn’t bother you by tagging. I hope we see you more. It was good to know a mum’s view on the subject, cos all of us are still children, not parents. :hibiscus: :hibiscus:

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Not at all, my pleasure :slightly_smiling_face: :rose:

Now I feel like a grandma here :roll_eyes: :sweat_smile:

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Sorry :smile: :sweat_smile:
I’m sure you’re younger than I am. I’m [painfully] 33 (funny choice of adverb :sweat_smile:). Someone calls me grandpa (I will kill her :expressionless:)

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That’s completely the point. I can’t accept it because you can’t say the same thing for a girl. And you should note that people are not toys to play with. Especially girls.

Girls are proud by nature and having a boy shatter it, is not bearable for them. Most of the boys do really look at girls as toys and the relationship as a game, as a gamble. The trauma is the best part of a breakup for a girl. It’s actually nothing compare to other things might happen during a relationship.

I don’t know about other girls, but I won’t tolerate to be mistreated or to be looked at as a “pretty doll” to play with. I’m more than that.

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We’re getting off the track. Would you like to make another thread specifically for this subject? (mating :joy: I guess)

But…
You’re trying to make it sound a moral thing, but actually more than 80% of it is physical and natural. In some species males try to find mate and in others females do that. Well, for humans, it’s the male who tries to find mate. Can you blame them for their nature? Have you seen the birds trying to attract females by their colourful feathers? The male wants to get laid (:sweat_smile:) and the female is attracted to colours, for God’s sake. :joy: It’s like humans; male wants to mate and female is attracted to wealth, love (ugh :nauseated_face:) and family. You girls are walking on a thin boundary line of morality and physicality. You can blame your God for that.

Anyway, on behalf of all boys on the planet, I am sorry! Sorry, OK?! :joy:

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I meant to end it but you sent that comment of yours and well, you don’t want me to shut my mouth and don’t answer back, do you?! :face_with_raised_eyebrow:

Well, that’s not fair and not an acceptable excuse. Come on! A boy filirting with several girls at the same time has nothing to do with nature. You don’t have to give your instinct a free rein for crying out loud!

:rofl: It’ll get way more than a “sorry” to get me to back off.

And now you can end this ridiculous discussion by not answering back. The choice is yours. :relieved: :joy:

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Hi🌼
My text is from a teenager expressing his anger, not from the point of view of a responsible parent, I had to write about a teenager’s anger and hatred of useless checks have to find out from a parent what he expects from a teenager :hibiscus: :hugs:

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No, I was suggesting to make a thread for talking about “love”. Ignore the last part. :sweat_smile:

I’m not talking about that kind of idiots who have no shame and boundaries. I’m talking about the desire of a normal boy in finding his favourite partner for life. Do you think that’s such an easy job? He sees a girl, falls in love and makes a family? Boys must look for their partners and girls must wait for them to appear (I didn’t use the other verb on purpose :sweat_smile:).
When a boy sees a girl, he gets butterflies in his stomach. It’s not his fault. Just having a wonderful girl in his life can stop that feeling for other girls. Cut us some slack.

What’s that saying? “Who did the work? The one who finished it”. So, I’m not going to let you finish and win. :joy:

(You’re right; it’s getting ridiculous :smile:)

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