That’s very kind of you.
I don’t think you’re a bitter person. I have the same point of view as you sometimes. I used to write super bitter, gloomy texts that when I would force a slightly happy and optemistic sentence among bitter words, it would take every one by surprise and even some one told me, it’s a remarkable progress.
Sooooooooo true. And we see eye to eye completely.
Thanks. I wish it for every one of us.
Hello Ms.Velayati
I disagree with going to college, because it’s atmosphere is not suitable for learning advance skills. There is high level of tention and stress during exam days which makes some pralisis and disability for learning.
While we can learn any skill or craft via internet our society believes going to university is mandatory but my question is which one is more efficient?
a lecture base community with high level of tention or learning by your self.
Howdy everyone!
I’m pretty interested in short quotes and I spend 15 minutes a day and read some. So, when I thought about giving a piece of advice, I was overwhelmed by a flood of quotes which I liked and approved and which weren’t originally mine.
So, I decided that I’m not going to rewrite what I have read but write what I have worked out myself.
I believe a large part of our believes and thoughts have been tempered with the moment we have set eyes on this world. One of these thoughts is the idea of “perfection”.
We have got a black and white view of people. Those who are evil are evil, not owning an ounce of goodness. And those who are good are good, saint people who are not capable of any dark act.
But that’s a biiiiiiiiiig lie!
You cannot split people in to groups, you just can’t!
People are different from each other with different collection of feachers. All of us got collections containing both good an evil.
A person can be brave but cruel.
A peson can be kind but a coward.
See?
This black and white way of thinking is why we frequently get shocked by people moves!
We either believe they are bad, therefore uncapable of showing any sign of goodness, or they are good, uncapable of hurting a fly.
It’s time for everyone of us to accept that perfect people do not exist!
By putting away this black and white idea of people, you’ll learn to not always expect people more than they are really capable of.
This way, an act of ignorence from someone who had your full attention will not hurt the same as past.
This way an act of indifference from someone who had your full support will not sting that bad.
In short, try to look at people logically not emotionally. And see if you can eccept them with both their flaws and good points.
Remeber, no one is flawless.
But, I’m going to share some of the best quotes I read cause I can not skip.
Good morning.
I agree with you. And not so much to your surprise, I must admit that I totally see people in black and white; mostly black, to be precise. (I don’t trust people and I earned it). Let me add something to your strangely perfect and white portrait of characters by stating the obvious. If we accept that there’s a grey territory in life, and it’s the land of our flaws, I should say, no one can stay in that land for long, otherwise they’ll become black. I mean when you make a mistake, you have to make it right. If you do something bad to someone, you must apologize, even if it doesn’t work. You cannot live as a useless person in your whole life. You can’t stay a coward, a gossip, a liar. You have a flaw, then you fix it. We can’t live in grey.
And another obvious thing; it takes us one little moment to stain a black spot on our seemingly white character, but it takes a lot longer to whiten that spot back, depending on its blackness. If we do a lot of bad stuff in our lives, we’ll become black.
You’re an excellent writer, by the way. If the only person who can understand what I write is you, that’s enough for me. And when someone creates a wonderful thread and a great opportunity for me to write, I shouldn’t stay quiet; that’s a grey area. We cannot stay there for long. We take something good, then we have to give something good back. I wish the others were more supportive and active.
Have a nice day.
Morning!
Well, I absolutely go along with you. There is no question in the fact that we all have to work to make a better version of ourselves. Try to strengthen our bright spots and weaken our dark spots and not being perfect is no excuse for not trying to make up our messes. That’s sooo true. But I mean that we all live with this idea of perfection. Like we expect people to be complete. You know, it’s like the first time I read about “Nicola Tesla” and via his life I realized that famous “Edison” was not that little poor but intelligent boy of my imagination. Despite the fact that he invented electricity and he was a genius but he used and fooled tesla and then to secure his own place he lied and tried to show Tesla and his ideas dangerous when they actually weren’t! Big lies, right?
Or when I found out that Enistein has participated in making the Atomic bomb which blowed up cities and took innocent people’s lives.
Personally, I thought of them as heroes, wanted to be like them! but after I figured out more, I did not want to be anything near them. I find out they weren’t heroes ,after all. They don’t deserve the name.
And I know many other people have the same perfect and complete imige of these scientists. And they are comparing themselves with them and seeing no meaning in their own lives. They probably wonder why those people are intelligent, kind, brave, selfless and just pefect! but they are not!?
I wanted to tell them that there is not such a thing like perfectness. That’s a big joke!
That’s really nice of you to say.
Exactly. I mean, what’s the point of writing things which no one reads and pays attention to them. Like, yes you have written sth and I have read it but I don’t give a danm it’s right or wrong.
Thanks.
You’re utterly right, and as I said “I agree with you”. I got your point and just wanted to add that we probably cannot tell “we’re not perfect” to justify our flaws. I think we should say “try to be perfect” for ourselves and “Human is not perfect” for others and accept their flaws. By the phrase “strangely perfect portrait” I meant it looks unusual from my point of view.
All in all, we think alike, but not about the black-and-white thing. Because I’m totally colour-blind in this case, and see everything with a blackish hue. And the other thing is, that I see the world as a zero-sum game. Everything we gain, we’ll lose something equally important for it. If I go after making money, I’ll lose my precious time. If I look for happiness and joy, I have to face equally bad experiences (even if it’s the fear of losing them). Becoming intelligent causes you more sadness. Becoming more simple-minded frees your mind of annoying thoughts, and so on. Probably this is why we can’t become perfect, and we never experience pure happiness. We feel joy and pain at the same time, and this doesn’t allow us to be satisfied, so even though we have much, we want more. We will never become perfect.
I really enjoyed talking to you today. Thank you.
See you around.
Hi there.
The other day, I fould this music and I loved it. Really really loved it.
So, I thought I would share it with you.
She’d never be alone
اون(بچه )هرگز تنها نمیشه
Have someone to hold
یه تیکه گاه خواهد داشت
And when nights were cold
و وقتی شبا سرد شن(اوضاع خراب شه)
She’d say
اون میگه(مادره)
The world’s not perfect, but it’s not that bad
دنیا کامل نیست،ولی این اونقدرا هم بد نیست
If we got each other, and that’s all we have
اگه ما همدیگه رو داشته باشیم، پس تنها چیزی است که داریم
I will be your mother, and I’ll hold your hand
من مادرت خواهم بود، و دستانت را خواهم گرفت
You should know I’ll be there for you
بهتره بدونی که من بخاطر تو اونجا خواهم بود(پشتیبانتم)
When the world’s not perfect, when the world’s not kind
وقتی که دنیا کامل نیست،وقتی که دنیا مهربون نیست
If we have each other then we’ll both be fine
اگه ما همدیگه رو داشته باشیم جفتمون خوب خواهیم بود
I will be your mother, and I’ll hold your hand
من مادرت خواهم بود،و دستانت را خواهم گرفت
You should know I’ll be there for you
بهتره بدونی که من بخاطر تو اونجا خواهم بود(پشتیبانتم)
They were 90 and were living out their days
اونا 90 سالشون بود و روزگار رو میگزروندن
On the Westside of the city, next to where they got engaged
تو قسمت غربی شهر،کنار همونجایی که نامزد کرده بودن
They had pictures on the walls of all the memories that they’d made
عکس هایی از خاطره هاشون روی دیوار داشتن
And though life was never easy, they were thankful that they stayed
و اگرچه زندگی هرگز آسون نبوده،اونا شکر گذار بودن که باهمن
With each other, and though some times were hard
با ههمدیگه،و اگرچه بعضی وقتا خیلی سخت بود
Even when she made him angry, he would never break her heart
حتی وقتی زنه مرده رو عصبی می کرد،مرده هیچوقت قلب زنشو نمی شکوند
No, they didn’t have the money to afford a fancy car
نه،اونا پول برای داشتن یه ماشین گرون قیمت نداشتند
But they never had to travel ’cause they’d never be apart
ولی اونا هرگز نیاز به سفر نداشتن چون هرگز از هم جدا نمی شدند
Even at the end
حتی در آخر
Their love was stronger than
عشقشان قوی تر از
The day that they first met
روزی بود که برای اولین بار همدیگه رو دیده بودن
They’d say
اونا میگفتند
The world’s not perfect, but it’s not that bad
دنیا کامل نیست،ولی این اونقدرا هم بد نیست
If we got each other, and that’s all we have
اگه ما همدیگه رو داشته باشیم،پس تنها چیزیی است که داریم
I will be your lover, and I’ll hold your hand
من معشوق تو خواهم بود،و دستاتو خواهم گرفت
You should know I’ll be there for you
بهتره بدونی که من بخاطر تو اونجا خواهم بود(پشتیبانتم)
When the world’s not perfect, when the world’s not kind
وقتی که دنیا کامل نیست،وقتی که دنیا مهربون نیست
If we have each other then we’ll both be fine
اگه ما همدیگه رو داشته باشیم جفتمون خوب خواهیم بود
I will be your lover , and I’ll hold your hand
من معشوق تو خواهم بود،و دستانت را خواهم گرفت
You should know I’ll be there for you
بهتره بدونی که من بخاطر تو اونجا خواهم بود(پشتیبانتم)
Mmm, mmm, mmm
You should know I’ll be there for you
بهتره بدونی که من بخاطر تو اونجا خواهم بود(پشتیبانتم)
I’m 23, and my folks are getting old
من 23 سالمه، و اطرافیانم دارن پیر میشن
I know they don’t have forever and I’m scared to be alone
می دونم که اونا همیشه نیستند و من از اینکه تنها باشم میترسم
So I’m thankful for my sister, even though sometimes we fight
پس من از داشتن خواهرم سپاسگذارم،اگرچه بعضی وقتا دعوا می کنیم
When high school wasn’t easy, she’s the reason I survived
وقتی دبیرستان آسون نبود،اون دلیلی بود که دَووم آوردم
I know she’d never leave me, and I hate to see her cry
می دونم که اون هرگز منو ترک نمی کنه و من بدم میاد گریه اش رو ببینم
So I wrote this verse to tell her that I’m always by her side
پس من این شعرو(این بندو میگه) نوشتم تا بهش بگم همیشه کنارشم
I wrote this verse to tell her that I’m always by her side
من این شعرو(این بندو میگه) نوشتم تا بهش بگم همیشه کنارشم
I wrote this verse to tell her that
من این شعرو(این بندو میگه) نوشتم تا بهش بگم که
The world’s not perfect, but it’s not that bad
دنیا کامل نیست،ولی این اونقدرا هم بد نیست
If we got each other, and that’s all we have
اگه ما همدیگه رو داشته باشیم، پس این تنها چیزی است که داریم
I will be your brother, and I’ll hold your hand
من برادر تو خواهم بود،و دستاتو خواهم گرفت
You should know I’ll be there for you
بهتره بدونی که من بخاطر تو اونجا خواهم بود(پشتیبانتم)
When the world’s not perfect, when the world’s not kind
وقتی که دنیا کامل نیست،وقتی که دنیا مهربون نیست
If we have each other then we’ll both be fine
اگه ما همدیگه رو داشته باشیم جفتمون خوب خواهیم بود
I will be your brother, and I’ll hold your hand
من برادر تو خواهم بود،و دستانت را خواهم گرفت
You should know I’ll be there for you
بهتره بدونی که من بخاطر تو اونجا خواهم بود(پشتیبانتم)
Mmm, mmm, mmm
You should know I’ll be there for you
بهتره بدونی که من بخاطر تو اونجا خواهم بود(پشتیبانتم)
عالی بود همین الان دانلودش میکنم:joy:
It was great. What’s its name?
I’m happy you liked it.
If we have each other
Thank you very much
Hey there!
It’s a cliche, I know. But let me repeat it. When one is a child, one is asked to be different. When they grow up, they will convict you to be like everyone else.
Don’t mistake me, I don’t want to convince you to be either different or identical. I’m not interested in making you achieve things I couldn’t achieve in my own life or becoming like those who might be superior to you. My only cry is to live and allow others to live as well!
I’m tired of being what you want me to be
Feeling so faithless lost under the surface
Don’t know what you’re expecting of me
Put under the pressure of walking in your shoes
.
.
.
And I know
I may end up failing too
But I know
You were just like me with someone disappointed in you
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.
.
Numb by Linkin Park
Your welcome!
Hello!
You know, when I used to go to English institude, there was a girl almost 3 years younger than me. Others usually thought that she was a little bit wierd. But to me, she was pretty normal. She was just a little bit too energetic and she would talk a bit animatedly. So, others would think she was a freak but I daresay she was way smarter than any other girl in my class.
But, cause she wouldn’t behave the same way as others, they would tease her. She would mostly cause me to laugh and I would always partner with her.
So, I totally agree with you, however you behave, always there is some one to stick a lable like"freak" on you. So, why bother?
The new challenge
Hey guys 
This is Reyhaneh. I’m so glad that my kind friend @gisoo13 chose me for saying new subject.
Nature
1.How do you describe nature in your mind 
2.if you saw nature, what would you think about
3.Do you care about environment
4.If you have one choice between (sea and jungle) which one do you choose
5.Do you like sleep in jungle with tent or in hotel
I invite you to participate in this challenge 
I’m waiting for your beautiful answer 
And that’s that .
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I’m going to write first!
Well, I think nature is both easy and hard to describe. It’s easy cause its greatness is crystal clear and it’s hard cause you never will be able to describe it as great as it is, no matter what words you use. Nature is the source of many different shades of colors and I think that’s why I love it. Cuase it’s rich in colors like green, blue, orange and… You don’t see much color when you live in a city. It’s just grey and black and white, I don’t like it really.
So, I see nature as an enonrmous ocean of colors.
I don’t know actually. I guess I wouldn’t think about any thing in particular. I would just enjoy myself.
I guess so.
I’d choose sea cause it’s more relaxing and I don’t get to see it so much.
You know, I can’t sit in car for long hours cause it gives me headache and makes me feel nauseated. So, I usually skip journeys and there isn’t any sea in my city.
I’d like to sleep in a tent but since I know I wouldn’t be able to sleep with the idea of all the animals and insects around, I go for the hotel.
Thanks dear Reyhaneh for your awesome post. 
This is a beautiful subject to talk about.
I see the nature as the antithesis of society. And you know what’s weird? I think all of us see it as somewhere that humans haven’t planted their big ugly cement buildings into the ground there (it’s even the definition of it). Like we know we’re unnatural. I know a lot of people who think of it as a place without the presence of humans and therefore the opposite of their own dystopias, the crowded cities (ironically, if we move there, it’s not nature anymore).
Sometimes I consider myself as a prisoner of my community, and feel fed up and prefer to die somewhere beautiful than live in this hideous place. I associate the nature with “peace”, “meditation”, “relaxation”, “beauty” and oddly enough there’s an accentuated face and voice of David Attenborough (the narrator of the documentary “Planet Earth”) in the corner of my mind. If you haven’t watched it yet, do not hesitate and download it straight away. It will blow your mind away. Sorry, I’m drifting off the topic a little. So, when it comes to communing with nature, exploring the great outdoors and adventuring in virgin lands and forests, I’m a real virgin too. I haven’t even seen the sea for donkey’s years. I’ve never been in a jungle. Sometimes, I wish I could free myself from the ball and chain of society and go live in a jungle. I wish I could fly a Jolly Roger on a small boat and fade away in the sea.
I’m pretty sure, now you can guess my answers to the other questions. Yes, I care about nature and couldn’t care less about cities. I prefer a tent in a jungle by the sea (as long as it’s far away from humans).
Thank you for giving us a reason to write our thoughts.
Hi
thank you for inviting me
i’m very busy now
Hello everybody.
I’m joining your challenge 
.
Ok.lets start…
Nature is very calm and it’s very comfortable for me .it’s full of flowers 
, trees and…
I like a air of jangle.it is neat and don’t dirty.
It’s include of a bird noise and it’s interesting. close your eyes and imagine you are in the jangle with anyone.you are taking a rest,have a picnic by yourself,and absolutely it’s makes you happy.
I think so care of environment is very important for everybody,l see a peaple who are don’t care of environment and dirty a street!
for example:
The family are going to picnic and they don’t notice a bout jangle and they don’t pick up their garbage.as they go back in the way they drop their Plastic.
I Prefer jongle because the seas are very dirty and ful of plastic.they are very crowded.
But jangle is not to be crowded.
Hello:wave:
Thanks for this beautiful topic Ms Reyhaneh👌
OK… here we gooo🤠
honestly, going to the nature is one of the best works in the world… going to the nature and looking at the god’s creations is one part of joy in anyone’s life.
When i saw nature,i just say one thing: hallelujah 
thanks god…
Yes i have to care about environment frankly
I choos sea and sleeping on the boat,when I’m in the middle of the sea⛵
Why hotel when jungle is near?
