I’ll start my essay with this question:
How much responsibility can one person take???
If you go out and ask people “how much are you responsible in a relationship?” you’ll get a huge variety of answers.
But my favorite answer is from the book “compound effect” by Darren Hardy.
He mentions when you are in a relationship whether it’s a marriage or boyfriend/ girlfriend or whatever… you are 100 percent responsible for everything.
for what you say, what you hear, how your partner behaves, how your children behave and so on…
I had it in my mind and I’ve been thinking about it until I watched a video by Elliot Hulse.
He was answering a question by a man who was cheating on his wife.
He asked: his wife constantly is annoying him and every time they cross paths with each other they have a fight. recently he found himself in love with her wife’s friend and here was the question.
“should he get a divorce and continue his relationship with the new woman?”
Elliot gave him a long answer but here was the interesting part.
He said, " you have two mirrors, 1. your wife 2. your daughter, if they behave badly, you must look at your self and ask what have done?"
This reminded me of Darren Hardy’s quote about 100% responsibility. you do something and people around you respond to it. no matter what…
so I started with this long preface to get my line straight.
I’m still young and I’m living in a country which I like to call Chilan and it’s an abbreviation of two words.
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challenging
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Iran
living here by itself is challenging and adding a new challenge to take another 100% responsibility for life is a whole different story.
So all I can say is that I can’t get married not because I don’t like marriage or the challenge behind it. but because I’m living in Iran and I can’t handle anything.
So as long as I’m living here I won’t think of it. and in my opinion, marriage is a tough choice that anyone can make.
So my answer to marriage is No I don’t think It’s a good idea to get married in this situation.
ala
@YoKambiz
For not for
as you’re thinking before watch a video so you need to make match time according to ;
I had been thinking about
but if you say now I watch a video so you should write I have been thinking
there is a question so why progressive tense ------> He answered a ques…
I’m not sure about using On
his wife is constantly annoying
قید بعد از فعل کمک میاد.
his wife’s friend
but doesn’t need
but و because هر دو کلمه وصل کننده جمله هستند.
And
…No. So, I don’t think